Every business needs a flow of leads that can be turned into a transaction, and better still, a relationship that includes numerous transactions.

You have current customers, who are, hopefully, very happy with your service and products. What better source of more business could you ask for?

In his seminal book ‘Influence’ published 30 years ago, and updated several times since, Dr. Robert Cialdini noted one of the 6 principals of persuasion is ‘Reciprocity’. The sense of obligation created when you do something, even a really small thing, for someone else out of pure generosity.

You do something generous for them, and they will feel obligated to, at some time, do something in return.

When that something happens to be a referral to someone they know, who could use your services, and with whom they have a relationship with mutual trust as a foundation, and they refer you to them, it is like money in the bank.

I have a client who has made successful referrals a central KPI of his workforce. His service requires that his employees are in peoples homes, and so trust is a fundamental part of a successful project completion. When those happy customers refer him to someone else, the conversion rate dwarfs anything coming from other sources. It is not always immediate, people are not always ready to buy when you are ready to sell, but when that time comes around, he is always at the front of the line.

Ask yourself a very simple question, and implement the answer to double your sales at very low cost.

‘How can I engage a customer in a way that they offer to refer me to their networks’?

You will probably find there are some simple answers to the question, including doing a great job for your current clients. However, the most effective way is to do something nice for them, with no (obvious) agenda.

My client has a modest bunch of flowers delivered to the lady of the house with a personalised thank you note attached. The note includes the suggestion that they might know somebody who would benefit from his services, and he would appreciate a referral.

A simple gesture, with a profound impact.

Leads are great, genuine referrals emerging from trusting relationships are money.